Being a teenager seems to be getting more difficult, even since the few years since I, myself, have been one. It has been refreshing to see ABC family bring a series to television that is real, “The Secret Life of the American Teenager.”
Amy, the 15-year-old main character, had a “this one time at band camp…” moment, and ended up getting pregnant. Nowadays this is happening more frequently. With every episode the audience tuning in is faced with true emotions and situations.
What makes it believeable is the fact that Amy hadn’t had sex before the one time that made her pregnant. She wasn’t a bad kid. She was a straight-A student. Played French Horn in the marching band. She wasn’t the girl standing outside of school smoking cigarettes. She wasn’t the girl skipping class to be with her boyfriend. She went to school to learn, not to meet boys. She doesn’t fit the stereotypical girl that America thinks is likely to get pregnant.
Not only is this newcoming baby ripping at the seams of what holds this family together, but Amy’s father had been committing adultery. As if they needed another hardship. I feel this helps add to the reality factor of the situation. Not to say that any teenage girl who gets pregnant is going to find out her dad has been cheating, but that more than one bad thing happens at once, that’s just how life is.
There are a few different side-stories, such as the adultery, that help to form the vibe of reality. A young girl, Adrian, looking for her biological father, Amy’s friends not being able to see her because she is pregnant, rumors flying around about Amy, and the “player” who is the father of the baby. All these stories fit together nicely by a common thread, they all contain the same people. The connections they make between characters is very life like, and brings meaning to the saying “it’s a small world,” because after all it is.
Although I applaud the eye-opening reality this show brings to its’ audience there is one thing that is completely out of a fairy-tale. Ben. He is Amy’s boyfriend, who instantly fell in love with her. They met days after she found out she was pregnant. Then once he found out, it didn’t phase him. In fact both Ben, and his father agreed that the right thing for him to do was the propose. They are hopeless romantics, and even though they knew she was pregnant by someone else, they wanted to take care of her. They wanted the baby to have a mom and dad.
Yes, I think this is sweet, and inside it makes me think “awww,” but right after that thought I think “who in the world would act this way?” This makes absolutely no sense to me. It is very uncharacteristic for people who are faced with this situation, especially at the young ago of 15. And though it gives the show a softer side, it also provides the unrealistic side. It’s showing teenage girls something that would be appealing in such a situation, but in reality would probably never happen. It’s a false hope.